How to overcome sadness?

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ




Have you ever felt sadness which you don't even know what's going on with yourself? you just feel empty inside and somehow you feel like you have doubts with Allah?
What kind of doubts in this case? It's like you have doubts to Allah that He will not give you rizq tomorrow (You are jobless and you feel that way), you feel that you will not gonna meet with your mate, when you are sick you feel that you're not gonna health and everything about worldly life, you have doubts with it. Have you ever felt like that?

If yea, then you are not alone. Wallah, i am 100% sure, all human being ever felt that way.

But don't let syathan deceived you, because it is their job to make you doubts in all aspect. They want you to be sad and doubting Allah so that  they can make you astray.

Related to the preach that i got a few days ago from Ustad Nouman Ali Khan, you know when Adam 'Alaihi salam was about to be created by Allah then the Angels said that "Human will only make demage and spill the blood" then Allah replied "Surely, I know what you don't know."
Only syhatan who just play with their thoughts and quiet without speak any words while Allah and angels had that conversation.

Esentially, syathan always play with their thoughts. When Allah commanded Angels and jins to fall into sajdah, Only jins who don't want to prostrate because they played with their thoughts and they made a conclusion that Adam is better than jins. Tho, Allah never say that Adam is better than jins.
The most thing that i want you to highlight is the way that syathan plays with their thoughts, it brings them to build hatred in their hearts. 
And syathan wants us to be like them. To overthink and however it brings negative thoughts in our minds and the worse is it can make hatred in our hearts. So, i hope, when we are playing with our thoughts about everything, remember to not make it exaggerated.

So, i wanna make some tips for all of us about "How to overcome sadness?" because, lately, i was in doubts not only doubts somehow at that time, sadness came over when i didn't even know what's going on. I mean, the sadness come to me while i am not sure what makes me sad. It just come and i can't deny. But Alhamdulillah, with the help of Allah, the sadness that i held, gradually left out.

So, here some tips, i hope it benefits us, foremost for me.

>> The first is, do istighfar. Why? because when we do istighfar we admitted to the Lord of the worlds that we have sins. So, with istighfar, In Shaa Allah, Allah will erase our minor sins and make our hearts at peace.

>> Second, Do prayer. After prayer, ask Allah to demolish our sadness.

>> Third, Read Qur'an. And Wallah, this is THE MOST EFFECTIVE WAY TO GET PEACE. I AM NOT LYING!!! Read till your heart get peace. In the beginning, you will not feel anything but please don't stop and convinced yourself that reading qur'an will make your heart peace. Read it till you feel better.

>> Fourth, Give charity. Because give charity will erase our sins as it is stated in the authentic hadith that

"Alms can wash away sins as water extinguishes fire "
At-Tirmidhi

By removing sins, may Allah make it easy for us to get over the sadness and put the happiness in our hearts, and May Allah make it easy our affairs. Aamiin

Thank you for your attention, I'll se you next time :)

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