Stop Telling people about the bad of the person you don't like
Salam..
Today, I wanna write something about "Stop Telling people about the bad of the person you don't like."
Because, nowadays, people hate someone who they don't even have a single problem to that person.
They just hate that person because their best friends telling them that they don't like that person because that person do so and so. What a toxic!
I know that sometimes we need to share our stories to the person who we suppose to understand us so that we can make our hearts feel better and not holding the sadness alone but sometimes we need to keep it a secret because we need to consider that "Is my story can make an impact to my friend if i am telling her?" I mean, if we are being harmed by people, and we share our stories about how wretched they are, is my friend will hate her as i hate her behaviour?
It's really bad when we hate people based on the story that we know
WHEREAS we have never being harmed by them. You know, how big the impact that we caused if we share the bad of others to people?
The possibilties that will happen are :
- People stay away from her
- People don't want to hear a single word from her
- People hate to see her even she does nothing at all
- And the worst is "BAD DUA"
Think again if we want to tell the others about the bad of someone, maybe she/he did the bad to us unintentionally or maybe they think it's normal because we all are different, we have our standard of behaviours that other people don't have, call it race or culture.
So that's all..
May Allah guide us all. Aamiin.
See you
#Selfreminder
Yas
Today, I wanna write something about "Stop Telling people about the bad of the person you don't like."
Because, nowadays, people hate someone who they don't even have a single problem to that person.
They just hate that person because their best friends telling them that they don't like that person because that person do so and so. What a toxic!
I know that sometimes we need to share our stories to the person who we suppose to understand us so that we can make our hearts feel better and not holding the sadness alone but sometimes we need to keep it a secret because we need to consider that "Is my story can make an impact to my friend if i am telling her?" I mean, if we are being harmed by people, and we share our stories about how wretched they are, is my friend will hate her as i hate her behaviour?
It's really bad when we hate people based on the story that we know
WHEREAS we have never being harmed by them. You know, how big the impact that we caused if we share the bad of others to people?
The possibilties that will happen are :
- People stay away from her
- People don't want to hear a single word from her
- People hate to see her even she does nothing at all
- And the worst is "BAD DUA"
Think again if we want to tell the others about the bad of someone, maybe she/he did the bad to us unintentionally or maybe they think it's normal because we all are different, we have our standard of behaviours that other people don't have, call it race or culture.
So that's all..
May Allah guide us all. Aamiin.
See you
#Selfreminder
Yas
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