Ajeng's Diary

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim, If you find a doctor who adopts harmful medical procedures or a teacher with bad moral character, you will certainly disapprove of their wrong practices, which are obviously at odds with their social position and the type of knowledge they have acquired. This, however, will not make you change your mind about the great benefits medical science has afforded mankind or great position education and learning occupies in society and civilisation. You will undoubtedly reach the conclusion that such a doctor or teacher actually misrepresents his professional qualifications and affiliations.  By the same token, if you find some muslims who follow some bad practices, you may mistakenly assume that such practices reflect the spirit of islam, which is obviously not true. Just because the wrong practices of that wrong doctor or teacher cannot be possibly attributted to the medical or educational profession, such muslims' bad practices cannot, with an even s...

Salam.. Today, I wanna write something about "Stop Telling people about the bad of the person you don't like." Because, nowadays, people hate someone who they don't even have a single problem to that person. They just hate that person because their best friends telling them that they don't like that person because that person do so and so. What a toxic! I know that sometimes we need to share our stories to the person who we suppose to understand us so that we can make our hearts feel better and not holding the sadness alone but sometimes we need to keep it a secret because we need to consider that " Is my story can make an impact to my friend if i am telling her?"  I mean, if we are being harmed by people, and we share our stories about how wretched they are, is my friend will hate her as i hate her behaviour? It's really bad when we hate people based on the story that we know WHEREAS we have never being harmed by them. You know, how b...